The Big Seven

The interesting thing about stripping as a profession (as it pertains to looks, anyway) is that you have to look fantasy-good, in person, for 8 hours at time--and the look has to be extremely low-maintenance. Think of dancing on a stage with extremely hot lighting, then walking off the stage and into an audience who wants you to look like a close-up fantasy. Heavy makeup and elaborate hair styles are not an option. We can't hide inside flattering clothes and control-top panty hose.

There are seven basic things that are the foundation for a lasting sexy look. These are the things that won't melt in the spotlight or go flat by the end of the day. Once you have these seven things under control, you will pretty much be able to roll out of bed, slam a cup of coffee, and be ready to face the day. You will look as good in your jeans and boots as in an evening gown.

These are the "Big Seven:"

• Skin
• Hair
• Nails (Manicure and Pedicure)
• Smile
• Eyebrows
• Fitness
• Posture
  

Now, the good news is, once you have a handle on these things, you will look polished and attractive wherever you go. You won't need much else to maintain your look. None of these things are extremely difficult to attain or to maintain, and they are not expensive. In fact, for less than $100, you can get on the right track.

A nice side effect of this is, as you endeavor to improve your look, your health will benefit, too.

If there is a down side, it is this: You will have to put some time and effort into yourself every day. It won't be a lot, but it will be continuous. I spend typically half an hour to an hour a day on personal care, a couple hours a month at the nail and hair salon, and about an hour a day exercising (or at least I should). You will just have to consider this your "me" time. If you can't convince yourself that you deserve it, then consider it a bonus for your marriage, relationship, or career. In every profession, attractive people have an easier time. And, even though you know your husband or partner loves you just the way you are, he or she will appreciate that you are now taking better care of yourself, and will likely show it in the nicest ways (*wink)!